I have many inboxes from pray for me, pray for us, talk to me about what I am doing wrong to how did you do it?
Others are asking how long they should date for before marriage. I will try and make it short.
Love has no road map. When I met my king I did not even notice him. He did. Ladies stop chasing. That is my rule number one.
I am in the travel industry and it will be an error to see an antelope chase a lion. It can never happen. Desperate women already expose their need to be devalued.
Have the man work to get you. Mine did for months. Infact after meeting me in Lagos… He flew in to Nairobi after two weeks for work.
When we met for dinner he said I have seen a woman I want to marry… Rule number 2 – men always know who they will marry when they meet them.
If a man is stalling you with reasons from money, to let us wait finish university, get a better job, I need time, my family says wait – baby girl those are excuses. You are simply not good enough to carry his vision.
You are a gem. A priceless gift sent from above. You carry grace to be and to bring forth to being.
My secret daily is Jesus. I pray for everything including the traffic jam 😂😂😂😂. How often do you pray ladies? Men when do you pray for the woman you want to marry?
Not every woman is a wife others are knives coming to cut through the man. There are men too broken to love again because of damages caused by women in their past.
Before you get into a relationship as a woman or man find yourself. Deal with your past wars, mistrusts, pain and uncertainities.
Not everyone is out to hurt you. Give love a chance.
To understand love go to the manufacturer. If God is love will He not heal you and give you a love filled relationship? He will. I know because He did it for me when I did not think love was for me.
Words by Shirley
Congratulations to Didier Bayeye of Sun International and Shirley Favour Nailantei of Convette Group on your wedding! May the good Lord bless and keep your home!